👇🏻This changed everything for us… It would start small — a comment, a tone, something petty — and suddenly we’d be fighting like it was the end of the world. Then the silence. The house would feel heavy, and neither of us would know how to come back from it. It wasn’t that we didn’t love each other. But every time we disagreed, we both went straight into defense mode, trying to protect ourselves instead of actually hearing each other. And when things cooled off, we’d both wait for the other to